Yeah I don't like the big stick ends
I have my sticks as low as possible and sharp on my 14sg my dad has a dx9 I found the stick to be to high even at the lowest point

 

For me, I like small and sharp stick ends - Like @3d mick. I find the big stick ends tend to "WALK" across your fingers as you move the sticks quickly. So for me i like this style... and i like to have the prongs sharpened every now and then. It makes a HUGE difference.

 

http://www.desertaircraft.com.au/shop/secraft-alloy-transmitter-stick-ends-v1.html

These badboys are the shiz

 

I tried those wide ended ones a while back too, and I hated them. I didn`t even finish the first flight with them because I felt like I was going to lose control of my helicopter. Now I use these http://www.espritmodel.com/transmitter-stick-ends-v2-16mm-dx6idx8hitecfutaba-m3-red.aspx I fly with thumbs, so with these being lower than most other gimbal ends...they work great for the way I fly.

 

Well Yes thanks @feral. Thanks @Geena! It seems the smaller ends are better.

 

They`re definitely better for me....everyone else`s mileage may vary though

 

Be warned the Ends on the link I posted are very sharp.
If you white knuckle the TX while you fly your bound to finish the flight cause of the holes in your thumbs